As a husband, I want to be strong
for my wife. I want her to see me as a man in the same vein as Maximus Aurelius
from Gladiator; a persistent and strong
leader with good intent. In reality, I’m more like a child in middle school
who’s trying to impress a girl but continually cracks under pressure.
But how can Ian, a crippled man
who’s been stripped of many physical and mental capabilities, be this type of
man for his wife?
Well, the most important aspect of
service to your wife is soul-protector. How did Jesus best serve the church? By
redeeming and caring for the church. He gave himself up for the church so that
“he might sanctify her” (Eph. 5:25-26). He gave himself up “so that he might
present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such
thing, that she might be holy and without blemish” (Eph. 5:27). Husbands are
supposed to love their wives “as Christ loved the church and gave himself up
for her” (Eph. 5:25).
We cannot save people from
damnation, but we can care for them. So, the best way a husband can serve his
wife is by caring for her spiritual condition and seeking her sanctification.
This is the most obvious way Ian serves Larissa, and he does it well.
Ian’s joyfulness and complete
reliance on God seem to bring encouragement to Larissa, not to mention his
quickness to bring God back to the center of things. Ian portrays faith like it
should be portrayed: as common sense. God is good and that’s the truth, even to
a man in Ian’s condition.
This should reposition my focus in
marriage. The most important aspect of protecting, caring and providing for my
wife is spiritual. Even if I were handicapped, unable to walk by myself, and
relying on her for everything, the weight of her soul on my heart should be
heavier than any other burdens I might have.
I should be more like Ian, because
Ian serves his wife like Jesus serves his church.
7 comments:
this is beautiful. amen.
Thank you!
Oh, that ALL God-fearing men would have the faith of Ian! This story is beautiful, and their love for each other is evident in that video. Praise God for bringing them together when He did, and in the way that He did. I LOVE marriage stories like this!
Beautifully written, Caleb. Ian is, as he said about God in the video, AWESOME, and so is Larissa! What wonderful role models they are for all of us ♥
This is beautiful
40 hours a week, 40 hours a week....now that is true brotherly love! Beautiful Christ-like love. Gospel love. Others are blessing and caring for Ian while he, in his own way, ministers and cares for them as well.
Jesus' love shining through you all is what I love to see and read on this blog. Thanks for all you share...to encourage your readers for you know not how it touches and refocuses their (my) heart on HIM during their (my) hours of darkness and great difficulty.
Wendy in MD
"The most important aspect of protecting, caring and providing for my wife is spiritual. Even if I were handicapped, unable to walk by myself, and relying on her for everything, the weight of her soul on my heart should be heavier than any other burdens I might have."
This is very deep and got me thinking lots. Thanks for sharing. God bless
Sandra
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